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RIGHTS OF THE SPOUSES
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 Rights Of The Spouses
  • Book Author:
SULAYMAN AR-RUHAYLI
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Rights of the Spouses authored by shaykh Sulayman Ruhaylee

RIGHTS OF THE SPOUSES

The importance of the family

Verily all the praises belong to Allah. We praise Him and we seek His assistance and we seek His forgiveness. And we seek refuge in Allah from the evil of our souls and from the evil of our actions. Whoever Allah guides, none can misguide him, and whoever is misguided, there is no guide for him.

I bear witness that nothing has the right to be worshipped except for Allah alone, without partners, and I bear witness that Muhammad is His slave and His Messenger W-

O you who believe! Fear Allah as He should be feared, and die not except in a state of Islam. (Soorah Aali Imraan 3:102)

0 mankind! Be dutiful to your Lord, Who created you from a single person (Adam), and from him (Adam) He created his wife [Hawwa (Eve)], and from them both He created many men and women and fear Allah through Whom you demand your mutual (rights), and (do not cut the relations of) the wombs (kinship). Surely, Allah is Ever an All-Watcher over you. (Soorah An Nisaa 4:1)…..

THE RIGHTS BEFORE ENGAGEMENT

As it relates to the rights of the spouses -brothers, beloved- there are rights before the engagement, rights at the time of the engagement, rights at the time of the marriage contract, and rights which remain throughout the affair of marriage.

From the rights before the engagement is the right of choice, such that the person chooses someone upon religious commitment, rectification, and good character. Thus, the man desires the woman due to her righteousness, her religion, and her good character.

And the woman desires the man due to his righteousness, his religion, and his good character, because this is the foundation of goodness and happiness. And whoever is void of his or her religion is void of good. There is no good in a person who does not have religion, even if he possesses whatever qualities of goodness he may possess. For that reason our Lord said:

Allah will exalt in degree those of you who believe, and those who have been granted knowledge. Soorah Mujadilah 58:11

Thus, Allaah will elevate the person in degrees by way of knowledge if that knowledge is accompanied by faith, because it is not possible to have good unless it is accompanied with the religion.

Thus, if the religion is missing, the good is missing even if many good qualities are found in the person. Therefore, beauty will be of no benefit in the face of life’s burdens without religious commitment.

 And wealth will not benefit without religious commitment. Noble descent will not benefit without religious commitment. There must be religious commitment such as good character.

This is because the marital life is long, and it has in its requirements and constant companionship. It requires strength and persistence, such that it is based upon religious commitment and good character.

Marriage -brothers- is not fascination. Marriage – brothers-is constant interaction. The person removes that which he was hiding himself with outside of his home. He will come in contact with a female who will request from him demands, and he will have demands of her.

They will live together for a long period of time. It is not possible to fortify this affair of marriage, or establish it correct, constantly renewing it with love and happiness except with the religion and good character. Everything-0 beloved -will fade away with interaction and cohabitation except for religious commitment and good character. It will remain firm, shining renewing for its companion goodness and happiness.

For this reason there comes direction from our beloved and our Prophet w to the spouses concerning this affair. He said, addressing the spouse:

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